Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Build your Life: You live once!!!!

So many choices, so much to achieve, so much to say, so much to do and only 1 life....Phew!!!!!! This blog is dedicated to those souls who have met with disappointments in some form or the other, like failed relationship, marriages, bad job, defeats when you wanted to win and list goes on. Infact we all undergo emotions of anger, guilt, jealousy, hatred, etc.

When we fail in love or we are rejected, Just remember there exists a subtle difference between holding hands and actually loving someone and love doesn’t mean you have to be depended on someone and company of that special someone doesn’t give you security against anything. Kisses are never meant to be contracts and presents are not promises of a future commitment.

Failures, rejections are part and parcel of life, the important thing is you need to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not with the grief of a child because life is meant to be lived to the fullest. You have to learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans. After a while you will learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. So people plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers, because everyone is nowadays busy in their own life.

So people in a nutshell, Just for today smile, just for today spread happiness, just for today tell your loved ones how much you love them, just for today dream, just for today tell your parents how much you love them, just for today tell your spouse that she/he is the best wife/husband on this earth, just for today tell your friends how much they mean to you and how lucky you are to have them in your life, just for today forgive those who have hurt and broken your heart, just for today pray to Almighty and thank Him for giving this beautiful life, just for today spread Love and happiness around you, just for today live your life once again and forget all your disappointments and failures, Don’t lose this opportunity, who knows when will inexorable death come and take you away!!!!!

6 comments:

Aarti K said...

Whatever u said is really true n one needs to open up their heart n thank for every gud moment in one's life.

Unknown said...

Jay u are a deep thinker. and your thoughts are inspirational..so keep the candle burning.

Anonymous said...

Jay ho baba bangali

Kaushik Agrawal said...

Good thinking Jay...Never knew you were such a deep person.

Khushboo said...

Jay, you write really good.

i would like to see you living your life also on the same terms as you write, as this is much more practical than what i have seen people practising.

Great work! Keep up the good work.

Unknown said...

dis comment is spontaneous coming frm my heart... this blog of urs was very sweet n it was truly how "jay" is!!! i really liked it...