Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Sex Education: There is nothing sexy about it

Some adults will never grow up. They still think that providing sex education to the children or teenagers of today is against the Indian culture. I never knew that imparting education is against the culture. Every second day we are hearing about someone getting raped or molested.

We all are missing a big point here. The world has shrunk because of internet and whatever the information these kids want they can easily get from the internet. India has become a haven for Aids and these so called intellectual adults want that sex education should be banned, have these people become deaf and blind to the world around them? Why are we trying to avoid a subject which is so relevant to atleast our country which has a population of 1billion plus? It clearly shows that apart from eating, sleeping and breathing we are having irresponsible sex, else our population would not be increasing the way oil prices are increasing nowadays.

There was a research done by one of the NGO’s in India which stated that the average age of girls starting menstruation has come down from 15 years to 13years which clearly shows that the kids are growing really fast and it is imperative that they are provided the right education at the right age. There is no point in avoiding imparting sex education because the teenagers will find out for themselves the information they want but the problem is that information can misguide them and lead to a bigger social issues like unwanted pregnancy, rape, murder etc.

It is preposterous to think that sex education will harm the young minds, infact a good sex education is not only about sessions on sexual intercourse or how a girl/guy masturbates and neither it is all about the genital differences, but host of other issues that involve human sexuality like respect for the opposite sex, understanding your own body and being comfortable with it rather cursing it, having a high self esteem and healthy interaction with the opposite sex and treating everyone with dignity.

Sex is physical but sexuality is about the mind. Sex education is about empowering the kids with right values so that they know the difference between what is good for them and what is not , so that a brave new world is born which consists of trust, care, respect and harmony among the members of both the sex. Let better sense prevail among the so called intellectuals aka hypocrites who are against it, Amen!!